I think treating self-esteem as an ascribed status benefits
no one. It isn’t something that you are
born with and carry throughout your life.
Self-esteem varies from task to task, from interactions with peers and
authority figures and is a constantly changing status throughout your
life. If it was something you either had
or you didn’t then people with high self-esteem would never face any doubt
about their own abilities or self-worth, and low self-esteem people could never
meet any challenges laid out before them – and this just isn’t the case. The danger in assuming self-esteem is an
ascribed status is that individuals with low self-esteem are doomed to have it
forever and will constantly see this view reinforced when comparing themselves
to the perceived ascribed statuses of others even if it doesn’t necessarily
reflect reality. Self-esteem is a result
of what we have done and is very much an earned status. In an article for the Los Angeles Times
titled Self-Esteem is Earned, Not Learned
Mike Schmoker makes a great point about fostering self-esteem in education:
“Like it or not, self-esteem is very much a function of such
unyielding realities as what we can do, what we've done with what we have and
what we've made of ourselves. And so the school--with every effort toward
sensitivity, compassion and encouragement--should reinforce this, while
cultivating ability, talent, decency and the capacity for sustained effort, the
belief that you get what you pay for” (Schmoker, 1989).
It is
not enough for a school to foster self-esteem by telling a student to feel good
about themselves, or to tell them they are successful because this fosters a false
sense of self-esteem which can easily dissipate the next time a student faces
any struggle or conflict. This doesn’t
mean that it is fully up to the student to take charge in developing self-esteem,
rather we should be giving them the tools to develop a sense of self-esteem
through success and encouragement. Focus
on the positives and help them improve in areas of less confidence. According to Carl Rogers in his essay Teacher effects research on student
self-concept a student displays fewer disruptions, showed increased levels
on tests of self-concept and made great gains on academic achievement if taught
by teachers who had greater empathy towards, respect for and valued the
opinions of their students (Rogers, n.d.).
The key lies in developing students that feel as if their opinion is
valued, and this will help them see their own worth.
Rogers, C. (n.d.). Teacher
effects research on student self concept. Handout from EDU 6526, Seattle Pacific University, Feb. 24, 2017
Schmoker, M. (1989, October 7). Self-Esteem Is Earned, Not Learned. Los
Angeles Times. Retrieved from http://articles.latimes.com/1989-10-07/local/me-394_1_esteem-earn-learned.